Mahatma Gandhi said, “Be the change you want in the world.”

Wouldn’t it be great if others just did what they need to do when they need to do it? Or, wouldn’t it be nice if those around you who really needed guidance (even if they don’t know it!) would just listen? But, what’s the only thing you really can control? Yourself of course….

Since you can’t control all the people around you, you need to manage your skillfulness at dealing with them. The more effective you become at verbal and nonverbal communication, the more likely it is that people will move the direction you desire.

Since the only thing any of us can control is ourselves, we must become masterful. For your life to work, you cannot just sit on the sidelines and be a spectator. You are an active participant! This day of your life is not a rehearsal. This is the World Series—today and every day!

Even if you wanted to sit out the “game” you can’t. You are making choices about your level of involvement with every action you take or action you pass on taking.

Don’t just settle for whatever happens to drift by. Make things happen. Step up. Pick your focus, and launch yourself.

Whatever the next thing is you’re doing, you have the opportunity to make a difference for yourself and others. As Gandhi said, “Be the change you want in the world.” We will all be enriched and benefit by what you do, and who you become. This benefit holds especially true for you, who made the positive life change….