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The Law of Requisite Variety
Part 3 of 12 from Communication Dance (continued from last week…) Options Make Life Easier Remember the mathematical principle, the Law of Requisite Variety? It says “The part of system with the most options will control the system.” Not might control the system, not could control the system, “will” control the system. For instance, what’s […]
Posted: October 19th, 2022 under Audio Programs.
Tags: behavior, break-down, conflict, conversation, disagreement, flexibility, law of requisite variety, master, obvious, options, parent, perspective, spouse, stay calm
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Break-Out Of The Victim Position
Part 6 of 12 from Wake Up and Win! Turn Off The Autopilot (continued from last week…) Persecutor, Victim & Rescuer Another thing people tend to get stuck in is the role of being a victim. There are people who truly are victims. They have things happen to them which are way beyond their control […]
Posted: November 18th, 2020 under Audio Programs.
Tags: action plan, blaming, care, children, complain, complaining, Dr Eric Berne, love, persecutor, rationalization, rescue, rescuer, spouse, thinking, victim, whine
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