Tag: perspective
Emotions Have No Right Or Wrong
Part 7 of 14 from Communication Essentials (continued from last week…) Feelings Are Valid Couples communication tip number six is that emotions are not normally right or wrong. They just are. We are emotional beings. Everything we do, we do because it feels right to us or it feels wrong to us or it’s something […]
Posted: June 15th, 2022 under Audio Programs.
Tags: anger, attention, communication, conflicts, couples, defensive, desire, disappointment, empathy, feelings, judge, judgements, perspective, point of view, triggered, truth
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Try Not To Get Defensive
Part 6 of 14 from Communication Essentials (continued from last week…) Who has the Concern? Relationship communication tip number five is that we need to focus on the person who is having the concern whether that is you or whether that is them. If it’s you, you need to slow down and take the time, […]
Posted: June 8th, 2022 under Audio Programs.
Tags: concern, defense mechanisms, defensive, feelings, focus, insecurity, insights, listen, mistakes, partner, perspective, questions, relationship
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Be Open To Other Perspectives
Part 5 of 14 from Communication Essentials (continued from last week…) More Than One Perspective Tip number four would be that we need to watch out not to confront our mate with preset judgments or opinions that say they are wrong or at fault. There is more than one perspective on something and to automatically […]
Posted: June 1st, 2022 under Audio Programs.
Tags: accepting responsibility, aggressive, assistance, at fault, blame, confrontation, defensiveness, disagreement, judgement, perspective, sounding board, think about it, wounds
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How Can You Make A Difference?
Part 12 of 12 from Winning Relationships! (continued from last week…) The Triple Win We need to have what I call the triple win. That is a win for the customers, the employees and the company. Or for you, your people and the organization. Or, for you, your spouse and the people that you deal […]
Posted: April 21st, 2021 under Audio Programs.
Tags: achieve, benefits, best of success, build relationships, choose, desire, Go for it, goals, honorable, lifetime partners, moving forward, perspective, rewards, step up, take good care, taking back control, W.C. Fields, win
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How Attractive Are You?
Part 9 of 12 from Winning Relationships! (continued from last week…) Credibility The second is that we need to be credible. One thing we all desire is peace of mind. We all want to deal with people again and again who they have a connection with us. We need to feel that they are doing […]
Posted: March 31st, 2021 under Audio Programs.
Tags: appearance, credibility, credible, empathy, more powerful, need, perspective, point of view, relationships, reliability, responsiveness, stronger, understand
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Are You Focused On Long-Term Profitability?
Part 5 of 12 from Winning Relationships! (continued from last week…) Good or Bad is a Perspective Then the big question really is – what causes people around us to perceive what we do as good or bad? It is a subjective evaluation. The other person thought that what you did was good or bad […]
Posted: March 3rd, 2021 under Audio Programs.
Tags: building long term relationships, exceeded expectations, happy, interactions, live up to, perceived difference, perspective, pleasure, strategic planning
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Defuse Situational Conflict with a Thank You!
Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 14) (…continued from last week) Don’t Try to Change Them Don’t try to change their mind. Don’t try and control them. They have a right to their opinions. Even if they’re wrong, they […]
Posted: September 19th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: change them, conflict, diffuse conflict, Dr. Larry Iverson, Go for it, Johann Gottfried von Herder, managing yourself, opinion, perspective, sarcastic, sincere
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How You Can Overcome the Four Kinds of Conflict!
Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 8) (…continued from last week) The Four Kinds of Conflict There are four primary kinds of conflict that you can experience with someone: 1) conflict of roles and responsibilities, 2) goals and needs, […]
Posted: August 8th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: beliefs, Dwight Eisenhower, give and take, goals, honor, influence, integrity, kinds of conflict, negotiation, perspective, point of view, power struggles, unmet needs, values
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