Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 14) (…continued from last week) Don’t Try to Change Them Don’t try to change their mind. Don’t try and control them. They have a right to their opinions. Even if they’re wrong, they […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 13) (…continued from last week) Don’t Demand Perfection Also, don’t demand perfection. Most people aren’t all that great at providing negative feedback. One option is to demand that every single little piece of […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 12) (…continued from last week) Strategies for Managing the Critic There are many components to managing or coping with criticism. Sometimes it’s directly standing in there and dealing with it. Sometimes it’s diffusing […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 11) (…continued from last week) Reactions to Negative Input In his book Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams said, “A learning experience is one of those things that says, “You know […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 10) (…continued from last week) Hostile Criticism The third type of negativity or this negative input you can receive is hostile. In this case this criticism and negative feedback is encased in aggression. […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 9) (…continued from last week) You Can Gain Martin Luther King said, “The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 8) (…continued from last week) The Four Kinds of Conflict There are four primary kinds of conflict that you can experience with someone: 1) conflict of roles and responsibilities, 2) goals and needs, […]

Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 7) (…continued from last week) Person vs. Problem Another thing you can do is really try and separate the person from the problem. Separate the future from past interactions. Separate positions from interests. […]