Tag: blame
Do You Play The Blame Game?
Part 11 of 14 from Communication Essentials (continued from last week…) Break Free of the Blame Game Relationship tip number ten is an expansion of something I mentioned a moment ago. It is break free of the blame game. We need to use “I” statements instead of “You” statements. One of the most common causes […]
Posted: July 13th, 2022 under Audio Programs.
Tags: blame, break free, curse, demanding, feelings internal causes, Frustration, making judgements, perspective, pointing fingers, responsibility, self control, trigger emotions, whine
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Be Open To Other Perspectives
Part 5 of 14 from Communication Essentials (continued from last week…) More Than One Perspective Tip number four would be that we need to watch out not to confront our mate with preset judgments or opinions that say they are wrong or at fault. There is more than one perspective on something and to automatically […]
Posted: June 1st, 2022 under Audio Programs.
Tags: accepting responsibility, aggressive, assistance, at fault, blame, confrontation, defensiveness, disagreement, judgement, perspective, sounding board, think about it, wounds
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Are You Acting With Proprietary Interest?
Part 4 of 12 from Qualities of Highly Successful People (continued from last week…) #2 – Self-Reliance One of the best definitions of accountability and reliance I’ve heard is acting from what is termed “proprietary interest”. If you think about back to the days of the old west, who was the proprietor of the general […]
Posted: September 15th, 2021 under Audio Programs.
Tags: accountable, blame, hard work, interests, leadership, Phil Jackson, proprietary, Self-Reliance, succeed, success
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Stop Blocking Your Own Happiness
The Practice of Happiness The Dozen Core Components To Creating Abundant Happiness (Part 5 of 14) Order this entire audio program and transcript. (…continued from last week) Letting Go Of Happiness Blocks For a moment let’s talk about some of those things that we can stop doing that interfere with ourselves and with our relationships. […]
Posted: August 14th, 2019 under Audio Programs.
Tags: afraid, blame, blocks, break free, clinging, conflict, empowering, envy, fear, fulfillment, happiness, insecure, jealousy, letting go, relationships, trying to impress
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Don’t Snooze or You Lose
No More Excuses! Controlling Your Destiny by Overcoming Excuses That Block Your Success (Part 1 of 9) Order this entire audio program and transcript. You Don’t Have to Be Perfect It is absolutely possible to begin moving in the direction of your dreams right this moment. These practical proven strategies will boost your ability to […]
Posted: April 3rd, 2019 under Audio Programs.
Tags: blame, confidence, do it yourself, embarrassment, excuses, fear of failing, fear of rejection, fear of succeeding, kindness, learning, make mistakes, mistakes, modeling, proven strategies, safe, skill
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How Dare They Say That To Me!
Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 11) (…continued from last week) Reactions to Negative Input In his book Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams said, “A learning experience is one of those things that says, “You know […]
Posted: August 29th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: anger, angry, blame, counterproductive response, Criticism, denial, Douglas Adams, fear, Hitchhikers Guide, Inadequacy, only thing you can control, Shame
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Breaking Free! (Part 7)
Order and download this entire audio program. (…continued from last week) Be Conscious of Going Too Far A parent trying to control every movement, action or behavior of a child will both frustrate the child while making the parent absolutely crazy. We need to be aware of what’s going on around us so we can […]
Posted: April 18th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: be aware, be conscious, blame, child, comfort zone, fear, goals, listen, lying, parent, perspective, stuckness, telling the truth, unwillingness to listen, victim
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Handle It – Dealing with Criticism and Negative Feedback (Part 6)
Order and download this entire audio program and transcript. (…continued from last week) Direct Criticism The fourth type of criticism is direct criticism. Here the criticism is open and direct without being particularly aggressive. If you are going to receive criticism, this is the best form because they are being honest or straightforward. There is […]
Posted: January 11th, 2017 under Audio Programs.
Tags: aggressive, assertive, attack, blame, blaming, counter-attack, Criticism, defense, denial, fault, Lao Tzu, mistake, risk, self-defense
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