Tag: fear
Don’t Let Them Beat You
No More Excuses! Controlling Your Destiny by Overcoming Excuses That Block Your Success (Part 4 of 9) Order this entire audio program and transcript. (…continued from last week) Practice Makes Mastery Excuses, reasons and justifications block achieving your goals because they are a way of trying to wriggle out of ownership. You are what you […]
Posted: April 24th, 2019 under Audio Programs.
Tags: anxiety, bad childhood, brave, depression, excuses, fear, guilt, health, justifications, letting go, magic vase, mastery, mentor, poor choices, poor decisions, positive, proactive, proven model, step-by-step plan, study, tough time, wealth, wrong thinking, your heart’s desire
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How Dare They Say That To Me!
Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 11) (…continued from last week) Reactions to Negative Input In his book Hitch Hiker’s Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams said, “A learning experience is one of those things that says, “You know […]
Posted: August 29th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: anger, angry, blame, counterproductive response, Criticism, denial, Douglas Adams, fear, Hitchhikers Guide, Inadequacy, only thing you can control, Shame
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Fear and Frustration Can Lead To Unnecessary Criticism!
Order and download this entire audio program. I’ve Only Got Three Nerves Left – And You Are Pinching Two Of Them (Part 5) (…continued from last week) Jealousy Another thing that causes people to criticize, give a hard time, or pinch your few remaining nerves is because they’re jealous. If someone feels inadequate in some […]
Posted: July 18th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: anger, criticized, fear, Frustration, jealous, jealousy, John Wooden, mistakes, push your buttons, self-love manipulate, wish
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Breaking Free! (Part 10)
Order and download this entire audio program. (…continued from last week) Apply Understanding Liberally In all of your relationships you need to think first, what can I give to this relationship? And then second, what can I get from the relationship? It’s all about giving and getting. No one is so altruistic that they will […]
Posted: May 9th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: action, altruistic, anger, connection, curiosity, fear, happy, list-making, payoff, relationships, Shame, taken for granted, teachable moments, understanding
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Breaking Free! (Part 7)
Order and download this entire audio program. (…continued from last week) Be Conscious of Going Too Far A parent trying to control every movement, action or behavior of a child will both frustrate the child while making the parent absolutely crazy. We need to be aware of what’s going on around us so we can […]
Posted: April 18th, 2018 under Audio Programs.
Tags: be aware, be conscious, blame, child, comfort zone, fear, goals, listen, lying, parent, perspective, stuckness, telling the truth, unwillingness to listen, victim
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Strategies for Generating Greater Harmony Throughout Your Life (Part 6)
Order and download this entire audio program. (…continued from last week) Another thing you must do to have more harmony, more peace within your world is to challenge your shoulds. Quit shoulding on yourself – “I should do this, I must do that, I ought to have _____”fill in the blank. The shoulds, the musts, […]
Posted: September 20th, 2017 under Audio Programs.
Tags: anger, anxiety, fear, guilt, Louis L ’Amour, monitor thoughts, negative self talk, Nelson Mandela, Shame, should, shoulds, stronger, thinking patterns, worry
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Handle It – Dealing with Criticism and Negative Feedback (Part 8)
Order and download this entire audio program and transcript. (…continued from last week) Managing the Negatives There are various ways of dealing with criticism or negative feedback when it comes at us. What works best for someone you know, may not work for you. In order for any of these methods to work well they […]
Posted: February 8th, 2017 under Audio Programs.
Tags: aggressive, agree in part, blocked, Criticism, defensive, emotional, empathy, fear, hostile, listening, mad, perception, reality, relax, sad, validation
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Handle It – Dealing with Criticism and Negative Feedback (Part 4)
Order and download this entire nine-part audio program. (…continued from last week) Fear Distortion The seventh of these is fear. Some people are so hesitant to criticize that the feedback comes across in a very disguised form. The persons’ fear of you, of reprisal, or being out done may make them want to not be […]
Posted: December 28th, 2016 under Audio Programs.
Tags: active listening, collaborator, communicate, conflict management, Criticism, criticize, emotions, fear, meditation, negotiate, paraphrasing, toolbox, victim
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